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Centering identity on others' views makes confidence fragile
The final mindset that stops confidence-building is believing others' views matter more than your own. Most people judge each interaction — did they like me, did I look awkward, did the joke fall flat — and centering identity on those judgments makes confidence hard because you rely on outcomes you cannot control, making it easy to give up after a few failures.
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